raquelplankAs the sun bathes the world in warmth and nature comes alive, Summer invites us to embrace the vibrancy of life and deepen our connections with loved ones. The heat may be deterring you from physical closeness but that is not the only type of intimacy. The longer days and balmy nights create the perfect backdrop for increasing intimacy in your close relationships. Here are some delightful ways to elevate different types of intimacy during the summer months:
1. Beachside Bliss:
When Summer hits, the first thing I think of is the beach. Take your emotional connection to the next level by heading to the coast for a day of beachside relaxation. The rhythmic sounds of waves, the warm sand beneath your feet, and the refreshing sea breeze provide an idyllic setting for intimate conversations and shared moments. Don’t be surprised if you learn something new about your partner. Is there anything more romantic than taking a stroll down the beach, collecting seashells, and kicking your bare feet through the waves?
2. Outdoor Picnics:
A great way to increase your intellectual intimacy is to take your meals outdoors and savor the flavors of Summer with a picnic. Who needs expensive fancy dinners at pricey restaurants when you can have all your favorites with your partner? Pack a basket with fresh fruits, cheeses, and your favorite snacks. Enjoying a meal together in the midst of nature fosters a sense of intimacy. The additional privacy will encourage a feeling of closeness, open communication, and increased physical affection.
3. Sunset Strolls:
Summer sunsets are a spectacle to behold. Take advantage of the longer days by going for leisurely evening strolls with your partner. The soft hues of the setting sun create a romantic atmosphere, providing a perfect backdrop for heartfelt conversations. This quality time allows for feelings of emotional closeness. Whether you are an established couple or experimenting with potential partners, taking a moment to have honest conversations helps increase the level of intimacy and makes for a healthy relationship.
4. Rooftop Dinners:
Along similar lines of outdoor picnics, you can step up your dating game by providing a romantic dinner in a new location. Elevate your dining experience by having dinner on a rooftop. Whether it’s a rooftop restaurant or your own terrace, the open sky, and city lights create a magical ambiance, making your evening more intimate and special. With this type of romance, don’t be surprised if you notice an increase in sexual intimacy as well.
5. Outdoor Movie Nights:
Once upon a time, the drive-in movies were THE spot to take your date during the heat of Summer. Thanks to technology, you can now transform your backyard into a cozy outdoor cinema. Set up a comfortable blanket and projector, grab some popcorn, and enjoy a movie night under the stars. This laid-back setting encourages relaxation and emotional vulnerability. Being in close proximity may lead to hand-holding or other physical contact.
6. Water Adventures:
One of my favorite ways to maintain a strong relationship over the Summer is by keeping things wet. Engage in water activities together, whether kayaking, paddleboarding, or a boat ride. The shared thrill and refreshing nature of water adventures create memorable experiences that deepen your connection. Trying different things and new adventures with each other is another way to increase intimacy without necessarily having physical touch.
7. Summer Festivals and Events:
Summer provides warm weather and longer days to enjoy an array of outdoor activities. Explore local festivals, concerts, or outdoor events happening in your area. Participating in shared experiences like these adds an extra layer of excitement and intimacy to your summer. Anticipation can go a long way in healthy relationships. Having an event that both of you can get excited about together is incomparable.
8. Gardening Together:
As a relationship consultant, I find that couples that work as a team together have stronger relationships overall. If you have a garden or outdoor space, consider gardening together. Team up together to tackle weeds, and garden pests. Planting flowers, herbs, or vegetables not only enhances your surroundings but also provides a collaborative and nurturing activity for you and your partner. Try not to be intimidated by a hard time, gardening isn’t easy. However, attempting and failing with a partner is much more fun than trying it on your own.
9. Day Trips to Nature Reserves:
Escape the hustle and bustle by planning day trips to nature reserves or national parks. Hiking, bird-watching, or simply immersing yourselves in the natural beauty fosters a sense of connection with each other and the environment. One of the beauties of being a human being is being able to experience nature. Let the natural world be your backdrop and your intimate relationship will thrive.
10. Outdoor Yoga or Exercise Classes:
Embrace the summer energy by participating in outdoor yoga or exercise classes together. The combination of physical activity and fresh air contributes to a shared sense of well-being and intimacy. That yoga and exercise might just make you more flexible for sexual activities later on as well.
In conclusion, there is no need to have a lack of intimacy or keep your partner at a distance this summer due to the heat. The summer months offer a myriad of opportunities to enhance intimacy in your relationship through other means. By embracing the warmth of the season and incorporating these activities into your shared experiences, you can create lasting memories and deepen your connection with your partner in the sun-kissed days and balmy nights of summer. Healthy intimacy can be nurtured throughout the season to bring you and your partner closer together.
If you or your partner are experiencing a fear of intimacy or experiencing intimacy avoidance, I can help. Schedule a consultation with me today so we can explore different forms of intimacy together and get your relationship where you want it to be. I look forward to working with you to have the type of relationship you want and deserve.
